“You are not too much…… You are just remembering what it feels like to choose you.” — Letitia Hopkins
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Don’t just read about it—experience the shift.
This episode will meet you where you are and elevate you.
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✨ THIS SUMS IT UP: WHY NOW IS THE TIME TO STOP SELF-ABANDONING
Let’s keep it real — women are conditioned from day one to not choose themselves. To shrink. To people-please. To perform.
And the cost of that conditioning? Is your joy. Your voice. Your entire damn identity.
In this powerful, soul-igniting episode, I’m calling out the patterns of self-abandonment that high-achieving women — moms, wives, entrepreneurs, and career queens — fall into without even realizing it. From over-giving to over-apologizing to living life for everyone else, this is your permission slip to come back home to you.
Whether you’re sitting in the ache of losing yourself in motherhood or wondering why you no longer recognize the woman in the mirror, this episode holds a mirror to the moments you’ve traded yourself in for validation, comfort, or someone else’s needs.
But we’re not living in that era anymore.
This is the Main Character Era — and it’s time to reclaim it.
💡 WHAT YOU’LL WALK AWAY WITH
Soul Reminders That Are Your Homecoming:
You’ll finally understand why you keep self-abandoning — and what it’s costing you.
You’ll learn how to stop suppressing your needs and start voicing them, even when it feels hard.
You’ll get the mindset reframe that lets you be both loving and unapologetically aligned.
And best of all?
You’ll leave with actionable shifts that bring you back to your center — and back to your truth.
This isn’t just an episode.
It’s your homecoming.
🔥 3 MAIN CHARACTER MOVES TO COME BACK HOME TO YOU
1. Call It What It Is:
Self-abandonment doesn’t always look obvious. Sometimes it looks like putting everyone’s needs before yours, staying quiet to avoid conflict, or shrinking so others feel more comfortable. Start recognizing the tiny betrayals — so you can stop them in their tracks.
2. Reclaim the Mic:
You don’t have to trade your dreams in to be a good mom, wife, or leader. Use your voice — even if it shakes. Ask for help. Say what you want. Set a boundary. Every time you speak your truth, you come back home to yourself.
3. Put YOU Back on the Calendar:
You can’t live in overflow from an empty cup. Joy isn’t optional. Rest isn’t earned. Stop waiting for permission. Prioritize renewal, pleasure, and stillness like your future depends on it — because it does.
🎁 FREEBIES + NEXT STEPS
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