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EP 231. How to Live As Your New Identity

The Aligned Era

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And Stay Aligned When You Slip

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Identities aren’t prison sentences.
They’re choices you keep making… until you decide to make a new one.— Letitia Hopkins

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🎬 MAIN CHARACTER ERA MOMENT

So let’s talk about it, friend. You’ve done the work. You’ve declared who you are now. You’ve stepped into your Main Character Energy. You’ve shifted the way you walk, the way you talk, the way you show up. You feel her. You see her. You’re living like her.

And then… life hits. A trigger, an old wound, a moment of stress — and suddenly you catch yourself reacting like the old you. Saying things you promised yourself you wouldn’t say. Falling into patterns you thought you’d left behind. And in that moment, it feels like you’ve undone all your progress.

But here’s the truth — slipping back doesn’t mean you’ve failed. It doesn’t mean you’re not ready. It simply means you’re human. Growth isn’t about never slipping. Growth is about recognizing it faster, re-anchoring into your chosen identity, and moving forward with resilience. That’s where the real power lies.

WHAT THIS EPISODE UNLOCKS FOR YOU

Living as your new identity is not about perfection — it’s about commitment. The commitment to keep choosing the version of you that you’ve decided to be, no matter what.

When you listen to this episode, you’ll learn how to spot those slip-back moments without shame, how to reframe them as evidence of your growth, and how to reset quickly so you don’t spiral into old patterns. You’ll discover that awareness itself is a win, that noticing is a nudge, and that you’re stronger than you think.

This conversation is about building self-trust. It’s about seeing your past selves with love and gratitude, while confidently reinforcing your new identity through small daily choices. By the end, you’ll know exactly how to stay anchored in your Main Character Energy — even when you wobble.

3 MAIN CHARACTER MOVES TO STAY ALIGNED

Living as your new identity means you’re choosing alignment, again and again, even when you fall off track. The slip is just a moment, not your story. These Main Character Moves will help you anchor back into who you are becoming.

1. Spot the Slip or Celebrate the Win
Awareness is everything. If you’re in alignment, celebrate it — name it, own it, embody it. If you’ve slipped, call it out without shame: “That was the old me.” And then choose again.

2. Act as Her Right Now
Don’t wait to “feel ready.” Take one aligned action in this very moment — no matter how small. Send the email. Speak your truth. Hold the boundary. Move like her. That’s how you teach your brain: this is who we are now.

3. Create Your Default Setting
The more you practice, the less you’ll slip. Small, consistent actions weave your new identity so deeply into your daily life that it becomes second nature. Over time, the “new you” isn’t new at all — she’s simply you.

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You’re not failing when you slip — you’re learning. Every time you notice it faster, every time you catch yourself mid-pattern and choose differently, you’re literally rewriting your brain and reinforcing your new identity. Noticing is your nudge — your divine reminder that you have the power to shift in the moment. Old you might have stayed stuck for days, weeks, or even years, but this version of you? She notices, she interrupts the spiral, she remembers who she is, and she comes back stronger.

And here’s the beautiful part: your new identity isn’t fragile. It’s built on choice, and you can keep making that choice until it becomes who you are at your core.

✨ For the full overflow, stories, and strategies to stay anchored in your identity (even when you slip), go listen to EP 231.

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