“I remember a time when I had the strategy… but I still didn’t feel like her.“ — Letitia Hopkins

That was the moment I realized — the strategy doesn’t activate until the identity aligns.

Whew. If that hit, you already know this episode is for you.

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💫 THIS SUMS IT UP SUMMARY

Still waiting to feel confident before you go after what’s been calling your name?
Let me be real with you — you’ve been conned.

Confidence isn’t something that magically appears when the stars align and everything feels perfect. Confidence is built. In this fire-filled episode, I’m calling out the myth that keeps high-achieving women in a holding pattern and giving you the mindset shift you need to break out of it.

I share my own story of having the strategy, the plan, and the vision — and still not feeling like her. That gap between who you are and who you want to be? That’s the identity shift. And it starts when you stop waiting and start walking like her now.

As a Life, Love & Empowerment Coach, I’ve seen too many high-achieving women—moms, CEOs, creatives, and entrepreneurs—delay their destiny waiting to “feel ready.” But what if I told you that confidence is built in the doing? That the confidence you crave actually lives inside the tiny steps you keep putting off?

This episode is your wake-up call, your battle cry, and your permission slip to stop waiting and start moving.

This isn’t about faking it. This is about embodying it.
Let’s activate your Main Character Energy™ and build the kind of confidence that actually lasts.

🔥 WHAT YOU’LL WALK AWAY WITH

Here’s what this episode will unlock for you:

• You don’t need confidence to start. You need action to build it.
  
• Confidence isn’t the pregame. It’s the afterglow of consistent courage.
  
• You’ve had confidence before — and she’s still within reach.
  
• Grounding rituals and “worst day” plans give you something to stand on when it gets hard.
  
• You can borrow belief from your past, your faith, or the vision of who you’re becoming.
  
• Tiny, consistent steps build momentum — and momentum builds belief.
  

🔥 3 CORE MAIN CHARACTER MOVES TO BUILD REAL CONFIDENCE

These aren’t just cute tips — these are identity-shifting truths that will have you moving differently:

1. Borrow Belief Before You Build It
You don’t have to manufacture confidence out of thin air. Borrow it.
From a moment you crushed it in the past.
From your faith in what’s possible.
From the version of you who’s already done it in your mind’s eye.

2. Ritualize Your Resilience
Create grounding rituals for your worst days, not just your best ones.
So when life hits hard, you’ve already got a rhythm to stand on.

3. Let Action Lead the Way
Confidence doesn’t come before the leap — it shows up because of it.
Stop rehearsing and start becoming. Tiny steps create momentum.
And that momentum becomes belief.

🔥 FREEBIES + NEXT STEPS

Your Next Moves: Tap In, Turn On, Transform

Your confidence journey doesn’t stop here. Take what you heard and live it out:

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📝 The Self-Love Script
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🔥 Ignite Your Main Character Energy Journal Prompts
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Save it for the days you forget who you are.

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