MAIN CHARACTER QUOTE MOMENT:
“Identities aren’t prison sentences.
They’re choices you keep making… until you decide to make a new one.” — Letitia Hopkins
🌟 YOUR SPOTLIGHT STARTS HERE
This episode isn’t background noise — it’s your moment of clarity.
🎧 Press play on Apple Podcasts or Spotify and walk in the room like it’s yours (because it is).
🎬 MAIN CHARACTER ERA MOMENT
Let’s be real — the world has been trying to name you since birth.
Parents, teachers, friends, exes, bosses — everybody has an opinion on who you are.
Maybe you’ve been “the dependable one,” “the shy one,” “the difficult one,” or “the career-driven one.” And if you’re not careful, you’ll spend your whole life reacting to those labels instead of boldly deciding your own identity.
But here’s the truth: you don’t have to live trapped in old roles or past versions of yourself. You’re not frozen in time. You are not stuck in “who you used to be.” You get to redefine, reinvent, and rise… starting today.
This is your permission slip to stop letting old labels, roles, and criticism run the show. To step fully into your Main Character Energy — the version of you that decides who she is, owns it unapologetically, and lets the world adjust.
🔑 WHAT THIS EPISODE UNLOCKS FOR YOU
Here’s what I want you to hold close after listening: the world has been naming you since birth, but Main Character Energy is a decision, not just a vibe.
Your roles are chapters, not cages — which means you can evolve, grow, and step into new ones whenever you choose. Criticism doesn’t have to crush you; it can become fuel for growth if you let it.
You are not defined by your past or by how others perceive you, because deciding who you are is one of the most powerful acts of self-love you’ll ever make.
When you listen to this episode, you’ll discover just how much power you have in shaping your own story. You’ll see that those roles you’ve been carrying? I’m showing you how to detox labels that don’t fit anymore and give yourself the freedom to evolve without apology.
Your identity is never limited to your titles, roles, or the labels you’ve been given. This journey of self-discovery is ongoing, non-linear, and completely yours to narrate.
Because the truth is, you can reinvent yourself at any moment. You have the power to choose your identity and tell your own story. And when you do, your life will shift to meet the version of you that’s leading it.
MAIN CHARACTER MOVES TO REDEFINE YOURSELF
Now let’s make it practical. Because deciding who you are is beautiful — but living as that version of you is where the transformation happens. These Main Character Moves are your quick, doable shifts to keep yourself anchored in the identity you’ve chosen and to build momentum without overthinking it.
1. Detox the Labels
Write down every label you’ve been given and ask yourself: Does this still belong to me? Cross out the ones that don’t — because outdated identities don’t deserve a place in your story.
2. Turn Criticism Into Fuel
Instead of letting criticism shrink you, sift through it. Pull out what’s useful, toss the rest, and let it push you into a more powerful version of yourself.
3. Cast Yourself in the Role You Want
Write your own script. Decide how the best version of you speaks, acts, and shows up — and then step into her every single day until it feels natural.
💌 LET ME POUR INTO YOU REAL QUICK
The world may have written the first few chapters, but you’re the author now.
You are not stuck. You are not defined by who you’ve been. And you are not required to keep playing a role you’ve outgrown. The old labels? They’re just snapshots. A chapter in time. But you — right here, right now — are proof that you can choose again, redefine yourself, and rise into who you’ve decided to be.
So choose boldly. Choose beautifully. And remember… the mic is yours now. What are you going to say?
✨ For the full overflow — including the steps, stories, and strategies to start living as your chosen identity today — go listen to EP 230 of Confident & Empowered – The Encourage Over Everything Show.
💸 FREEBIES + NEXT STEPS
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